Salt and Sugar

Hi there friends! how are you going? i sincerely hope you are all doing fabulously! welcome to another post! Comparing yourself to others is absolute bull. People (usually) post/tweet/share only positive things that have happened in their lives, things they want other people to know about them, and things they want to brag about.  you might say you wish you had someone else's life but once you get to know them your mind might just change. for example, this really popular girl that's really fit and is absolutely gorgeous wants to follow you on your social media, you see all her thousands of followers and you immediately accept her request. day after day you see her life role out in front of you as you scroll through your news feed. one day, she has yoga in the morning then she goes to a photo shoot for your favourite fashion magazine or store. another day she has an amazing date with her hot, amazing and faithful boyfriend, and a shopping trip with all her best friends. you...

Hello there! its been awhile i know, but here is some more brain food for you to chew on till we next talk. What is the meaning of life? this question has puzzled many people for as long as people had striven to find out why they were planted on this earth.  many people say its to be successful, or to have a family or to be really popular. these statements are some what true. now you might be thinking that i am really wrong but just stay with me for a bit while i explain why.  the meaning of life is different for everybody which is why no one has the answer. god has a different plan and purpose for everyone.  in this world of individuals everyone wants to be like everyone else which could contribute to the fact that, the reason everyone wants to know what the meaning of life is is so they can follow that and be the same. but really there is no "one" meaning of life, there are millions and millions and millions. everyone has a different purpose, everyone is meant t...

Hello Friends, its been awhile. (sorry about that 😁) So what is Love? Love is Hard, Love is Difficult, Love is Painful, Love is Crazy, Love is Sacrificial, Love is Complicated, Love is Scary, Love is Different, Love is Choosing to care someone despite their filthy heart, Love is Caring for each other even when you’re angry, Love is Giving a little part of yourself up for someone else, Love is Putting someone before yourself, Love is Going out of your comfort zone, Love is Love. Love isn’t always nice it can be all of these not so good things. But no love is perfect, no relationship is perfect. Sometimes you need to be a glow stick and break before you can shine, in the same way sometimes people have to break apart to realise how much they need to fall back together. Love can be painful at times, but love is also a lot of good things as well. Love is always rewarding, Love is the absence of judgment, Love is Kind, Love is Respect, Love is Understanding, Love is keeping no r...

Hello! "Be Yourself" they said "it will be fun" they said. this is the problem with society, everywhere all over the world, everyone tells you the best way to be happy or the best way to get a boy/girl friend is to just be yourself, but then they continue to judge you, make fun of you, and put you down. because you being yourself is not that same as everyone else and they don't like that, they don't like to see other people be happy in there own bodies and in there own personality and with there own unique lifestyle. The world thrives on your negativity.  you want to be be happy? then forget about what the rest of the world thinks about you. be happy with those love handles and those unique personality traits. whether you're worried about not having friends or not being lovable enough to get a boy/girl friend, it shouldn't matter. what people think of you shouldn't matter, you know why? because your opinion is the most important opinion ...

Hi there lovely! what makes valentines day different from any other day?  well you could go all historian on me and say its because we should remember how saint valentines was marted for his faith, but we all know that not many people celebrate valentines day for that reason. you could say it is a special day to celebrate love and appreciate your significant other. you could also say its just a scheme for shops to make more money. to be honest i think that valentines day should be remembered for the original reason that day was created for. why do couples need a reason to get dressed up and go out for dinner or to buy each other flowers and chocolates? i mean its like national take your significant other out on a date day. and for all those single girls out there crying over bowls of ice-cream its just a mess. why should we feel like we need to be in a relationship just to celebrate a day or to even just fit in? i know this is all coming from a single teen girl but even if i had ...

Heyyyy! so schools back again....yay...*sarcasm*.... you need a bit of motivation for starting school again. maybe a little light to shine in the dark days of school which are to come. well your in luck here's some cute ideas to help you alone in the dark day to come.. welcome to SCHOOL INSPIRATION! 1. CUTE STATIONARY this is always a great motivation for me. i love cute pencils and cup holders and DIY n otebook covers. also having a super cute lunch box to show off at school is great, you'll be the lunch box envy of every girl (and possibly guy) at school! (search pinterst for some great DIY stationary stuff). 2. SCHOOL SURVIVAL KIT (for girls) brush and hair ties (every will also ask for hair ties so make sure you always bring extra!) dry shampoo is the best thing ever when you didn't have time for a shower (also never forget deodorant for sports day, if you don't need it i guarantee a friend will). tampons! I'm sure every girl already has these in her ba...